Ending up one canal
off often leads to pleasant outcomes
Commentary
by JoELLEN COLLINS
A tired tourist
may forget that any travel is fraught with wrong turns and possible
misadventures, but it is often those mistakes which open up the best
experiences.
As I head
home to the Wood River Valley, I may reflect on what I have relearned from
my recent sojourn in Italy. First is the reality that I do not do well in
solitude. In spite of my bravado in asserting that I would be fine totally
alone in a farmhouse during long and cold winter months, I discovered that
I craved human companionship. I even worked better on my writing when I
had others around from time to time. In the future, thus, I will have to
juggle my sense of independence with my gregarious nature.
More
importantly, I was reminded of the main reason for the success or failure
of many travel efforts, which is that one does best when rolling with the
punches. On our way to Venice’s Jewish ghetto, my friend Judith and I
took a wrong turn. We were one canal off our planned route. Thus, we
wandered for awhile, entered the ghetto from the rear and, after a moving
time absorbing the bas-reliefs commemorating Venetian Jews taken by
transport to the concentration camps of WWII, left through a different
street than we were supposed to. As a result, we happened upon the oldest
kosher restaurant in Venice. Without minimizing our emotions at the
ghetto, we nonetheless appreciated the delights of the meal we shared
there: chicken soup, potato latkes, and a wonderful assortment of spreads
and ethnic antipasti. I felt for a few minutes transplanted to my former
mother-in-law’s kitchen, where signs of my good favor were the jars of
chicken soup and homemade applesauce we would cart home. The proceeds from
the restaurants sales help support the Jewish community of Venice, a
slight rationale for wolfing down the delicious food.
A tired
tourist may forget that any travel is fraught with wrong turns and
possible misadventures, but it is often those mistakes which open up the
best experiences. A seasoned traveler, I expect, must be flexible.
Another
friend of mine met me in Rome after the New Year. In college we went to
India one summer under the aegis of the University of California-Los
Angeles’s Project India. There, we experienced culture shock with sights
of beggars everywhere, with the prevalence of disease, with the heat and
monsoon rains, and with our own almost unavoidable illnesses. Yet, any of
us would count that summer as one of the most profound of our lives. That
rigorous experience trained me to appreciate most the kind of travel where
I settle down in one place, despite occasional stresses and difficulties,
to absorb a different culture.
Thus, when
Roberta and I set off in my rental car to see Pompei, we were prepared for
a few bends in the road. We thought we could drive along the Amalfi coast,
stay somewhere (charming, we were sure) along the way, then go to Pompei
the next day. However, we got lost after leaving the Autostrada; several
hours later we paused to reflect on the visible effects of poverty we
witnessed, reminded of another Italy seldom seen from air-conditioned
buses. We were fortunate to take a turn up the hill beyond Pompei and
stumble on a large conference center called the Sakura. Elegant and quite
reasonable, it became our host for the night. Had we not taken a wrong
turn earlier, we would have missed this place, the view of the sunset from
our terrace, and the sense of gratitude we felt at finding it.
Even the
worst thing that happened to me on this trip, the theft of my wallet by
what the storeowner and police said was a professional gang of Gypsy or
Albanian girls in Florence, had a slight silver lining. I let down my
guard temporarily on the way to the hotel with my friend the week before
Christmas. While she watched our suitcases outside, in very cold weather,
I went into a small store to purchase a lovely warm hat I had seen
previously. Unfortunately, I neglected to zip up my large purse before I
left the store. A group of nicely dressed and pretty young women
surrounded me, and by the time I checked my purse, the wallet was gone.
Naturally, I am still disturbed by the loss of my passport, a hefty amount
of cash and many other essential items.
This
happened on a Sunday afternoon. On Monday morning I went to the U.S.
Consulate, where I was treated very well and received a new passport
within an hour and a half. American Express (around the corner) canceled
my old card and gave me a new one by day’s end. I only had to spend a
couple of hours reporting the theft to the police. By evening I had found
my Traveler’s Checks and a copy of my driver’s license under separate
cover. All in all, I finished the day inordinately thankful to and proud
of my American consulate and grateful to American Express (a
representative also called me several days later to find out if I was OK).
I realized that I am in a large company of other victims. It could have
been worse. I could have been alone.
So,
Pollyanna still resides in me. I will continue to travel and love it, a
bit more wary perhaps, but the next time I am one canal off I won’t
regret it at all.